Luminaries: Leah
Our sixth luminary is Leah!
I would love to share some advice that Leah shared with me at the end of our shoot, when we were discussing the challenges of balancing motherhood and work. She explained that sometimes the onslaught of demands can make feel like you’re floating in a swamp surrounded by alligators. The key, Leah said, is to only worry about the alligator closest to your boat.
I loved that!
Leah was nominated by three people, her daughter Jessica, her son Brandon and her daughter-in-law, Krizela. Here are some of the things they had to say about Leah.
“She's incredibly caring, selfless and brave. She supports fiercely and never let's people give up on themselves. She taught me what bravery was and that you're never too old to chase your dreams.”
“She went from a small town girl into the military, into a medical role that took her across Canada, the US, Europe and served time in Afghanistan working in hospitals to help any and all that required her aid. She actively brightens the day of those around her and works to solve problems. She is a font of compassion and one of the truly caring people of the world.”
“She worked up from nothing, raised 5 children into adulthood and still does what she can to guide them, all the while having to constantly leave home to serve in North America and overseas. She always makes others feel at ease and worries about others, even if they don't worry about themselves. She is loved dearly in her family, amongst her colleagues. I feel she would be a great example of a person that even through adversity remained humble and trudged on.”
The Luminaries Project is a personal creative project that celebrates women over 40 who are lighting the way for others in their communities. I am still accepting nominations, so if you know someone special, please read more and nominate them.
Name: Leah Boyd
Age: 60
Current occupation: Physician Assistant (PA) with Inspiromed
Past occupations: Military PA, Medical Technician (Med Tech), EMT
To describe myself in five words: determined, dedicated, loyal, compassionate, mom
In my free time, I love quilting, sewing, gardening, knitting, crochet, cross stitch, spending time with family and grandkids
A book I'm currently reading: Marilla of Green Gables
I love to listen to: a variety of music, podcasts and local radio
My morning routine: not very elaborate: shower, hair and makeup, drive to work, on days off, relax on the couch, drink my coffee, plan the day and play with our dog, Nyla
A decision I made that changed my life was: to join the military in order to give myself and my children more opportunities and education.
The biggest adventure of my life: I have had several adventures, some of biggest have been raising a large family, a tour to Afghanistan and work in the Role 3 Hospital with some of the most incredible caregivers and doctors, and a humanitarian tour on the Mercy Ship.
What I love about my current age: I love who I am, I am comfortable and confident in my own skin, I have time to spend with family and especially grandchildren I didn't have before. I have the time to do the things I love.
Some issues I am passionate about are: older women's physical and mental health issues. The process of physical aging for women is more commonly talked about now than in my mother's generation, but there are still a lot of taboo topics and misinformation. Reaching menopause is not a conclusion at the end of a stage of life; life goes on past this. Ongoing feminine health information is still important. Family doctors need to continue to educate women through menopause and beyond, and foster an atmosphere that allows the sensitive issues to be discussed.
I feel proud when: I see my family and grandchildren happy and successful in whatever they put their hands too. When Dean (my husband) and I attain our personal and professional goals.
Some people who inspire me are: my parents, my children and my husband. Several inspirational speakers e.g. Brene Brown
When I'm going through a tough time, what usually helps me feel better is: thinking things through, coming up with a plan and understanding what I have control over and what I don't, and of course a good cup of tea!
What I'm looking forward to right now is: time with family, planning to learn to take lessons to play a cello, finish unpacking this house.
Personal philosophy/favorite quote?
I have several:
“Excellence is never an accident; it is the result of high intention, sincere effort, intelligent direction, skillful execution, and the vision to see obstacles as opportunities.” - Aristotle
Age is a number not a definition.
How you talk to yourself is important.
Do your best at whatever you are doing.
People might be surprised to know that: I joined the military at 40, got a degree at 54, had five children (my oldest is 42), and I'm a seamstress.
Advice for those thinking of pursuing a career in the military: Don't believe the recruiter — this is not camping as you know it. It's not for the faint of heart, but one of the best jobs I ever had! If you want to be part of something big, travel to unusual places, have dangerous and interesting adventures, make friends, have brothers and sisters not related by blood, have access to continuing education , be mentors, humanitarians and leaders, have great dental, medical and pension benefits, and like wearing green, this could be a job for you!
Anything else you'd like to add? I have had an adventurous and interesting life thus far and I'm grateful for every opportunity given to me and to every person who helped me along the way. Most of all I'm grateful for a supportive and loving family. I look forward to “Act Three” as my children put it and to age with grace!
